Showing posts with label Paganism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Paganism. Show all posts

Thursday, August 28, 2014

Happy Birthday Amy FREE Limited Edition Teas!

We'd like to celebrate the birth of our proprietor Miss Amy Blackthorn with you choice of TWO limited edition birthday tea blends.

For the next week you'll be able to buy one of these limited edition teas, either Vanilla Panna cotta or our sexy Chocolate Cinnamon Torte.

Vanilla: Panna cotta Cake tea:  Vanilla Honeybush base and Cinnamon black Ceylon make for smoother blend of sweet and spicy.

Chocolate: Chocolate Cinnamon Torte tea:  Chocolate Chai and cinnamon black Ceylon make for a festive delight for the senses!


Free Deluxe sample with any purchase until Friday Sept 5th.  Just put Chocolate or Vanilla in the comments area.  Any purchase over $40 and you'll receive the Birthday Cake slice (Tin) of your choice.


http://blackthornhoodooblends.com/collections/frontpage/products/happy-birthday-amy-vanilla-cake

http://blackthornhoodooblends.com/products/happy-birthday-amy-chocolate-torte

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Adam and Eve's Affair

This torrid affair in black tea blend is perfect for all matters of love, faithful partnership and attraction. 


Ingredients:
4 tsp Adam and Eve tea
6 ounces gin
1 ounce sweet vermouth
1/4 cup sugar
5 dashes orange bitters
Orange and/or lemon twists, for garnish

Directions:
Place a saucepan over medium heat, add 3 cups water and sugar. Reduce the heat and simmer until the mixture is reduced to 2 cups, about 10 minutes. Strain the syrup into a glass measuring cup; if you have less than 2 cups syrup, add hot water. Add the tea and steep, about 3 minutes. Gently strain the tea and cool the syrup to room temperature. Combine the syrup, gin, vermouth and bitters in a large cocktail shaker with ice. Shake vigorously, about 20 seconds, then pour into a pitcher filled with ice. Garnish with orange and/or lemon twists.

Saturday, May 31, 2014

My-Tea New Moon (Non alcoholic Mocktail)

For a MIGHTY start to your New Moon cycle, try this non alcoholic beverage. 


Prep Time: 5 minutes
Cook Time: 3 minutes
Total Time: 8 minutes
Yield: 1 

Drink Ingredients: 
1 tbsp My-Tea spice tea (unbrewed)
2 cups apple cider
1 tsp agave nectar
1 tsp fresh lemon juice

Add Tea to Cider in sauce pan. Gently heat apple cider on medium heat. Add Agave to sweeten and lemon juice to taste. Enjoy! 

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Fiery Wall of Protection Chai Cocktail

Fiery Wall of Protection Chai Cocktail
This is a spicy, cozy cocktail that goes great in front of the fire pit in the back yard on a nice chilly spring night.

Prep Time: 7 minutes
Total Time: 7 minutes
Yield: 1 Cocktail

Ingredients:
2 ounces Baileys Original Irish Cream
3 ounces brewed Fiery Wall of Protection chai tea (if you haven't gotten yours yet you can find it here. http://blackthornhoodooblends.com/collections/frontpage/products/fiery-wall-of-protection
Raw brown sugar
Cinnamon stick (optional)

Preparation:
Brew 3 oz of Fiery Wall of Protection to desired strength. I'm using my favorite mug from Dancing Pig Pots. https://www.etsy.com/shop/dancingpigpots



Add 2 teaspoons of raw brown sugar and stir until dissolved. Fill a coffee mug with chai tea and Baileys Original Irish Cream. Stir with cinnamon stick.  Enjoy!


Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Sweet Rosemary Syrup -- Lattes and Steamers await!


      Recently a friend posted a photo of her homemade latte on FB. I don't even drink coffee and this concoction looked divine.  It was inspired by the utter delicious magic of Talula's Table, Rosemary Latte, in Kennett.  I'd always adored the flavor of Rosemary as a savory flavor, but had never thought of it as a sweet flavor.  The same friend had a recent dinner party.  I honestly can't remember if it was during an Ostara bonfire or just a nice dinner one weeknight.  Nonetheless, after dinner, coffee talk started.  "You have to try this," Laura said to the guests.  As I mentioned, I don't do coffee so I was just enjoying the chatter of the evening.  Laura had different plans.  Knowing how much I adore rosemary Laura suggested a rosemary steamer instead of a Latte.  I'm down!

     It was heaven in a mug.  Heaven.  I quickly asked Laura how she had made such amazing treats in her kitchen and I was hooked.  Laura had used rosemary teabags, but I didn't find them in the stores I looked, and frankly wasn't thrilled about rosemary I couldn't see or smell beforehand.  I just grabbed the herb pack seen above from my local produce section.

     I grabbed four healthy sized sprigs of rosemary and threw them in my tea infuser (below) and filled it with three cups of boiling water.  I let it sit over night to steep, though with rosemary being woody, I could have sped the process by boiling the rosemary with the water and making a decoction.

     Because I had left the infusion over night, I boiled 2 cups of infusion to bring it to a boil.  I added two cups of sugar to a pyrex bowl.  Once the rosemary infusion was boiling I added it to the sugar to stirring vigorously to make a syrup. I did have to add a teeny bit of infusion to bring it to an even 4 cups of syrup.  I then added a splash of homemade vanilla syrup because vanilla is awesome in just about everything.  

     Once I finished my syrup I couldn't wait to try it, so I heated a mug full of milk slowly on the stove, poured it into my mug and topped it with fresh Rosemary Vanilla Syrup.  Heavenly.  Now I can enjoy whenever I want.  My husband is thrilled because now I'm drinking milk. Everyone wins.


     My fabulous mug is a favorite from Dancing Pig Pottery that says, "Gruntled Minion".  Thanks to my friend Laura for the inspiration for this blog.
      

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Blackthorn Hoodoo Blends tea!


Hey!  For you Witches, Bitches, Root Doctors and Joes alike, I've launched a new line of Hoodoo Teas.  They're modeled after traditional recipes for oils like Vanvan, Triple Fast Luck, Helping and more!

 Hey, guess what!  My FUNDLY Guest Blog just went live, EARLY.  :)  Learn what made me decide to start making tea and more.

http://fundly.com/2014/03/guest-blog-tea-store/

Here are some sample teas to whet your appetite for tea!

Vanvan Tea he most popular Hoodoo oil in a Tea form. Removes Obstacles with just a hint of caffeine. Defeat Mercury Retrograde! Purification. Banishing. Ritual Preparation.

Come to Me Tea This spicy milk and honey flavored tea is a love drawing blend to bring the right lover your way. Just a hint of cinnamon flavor means it is good with or without sugar and the rooibos base means no caffeine.

Peaceful Home Tea This comforting, caffeine free blend of vanilla, lavender and peppermint will help you focus on the path you need to get your house in order. Bring peace back into your home with this comforting blend. It’s your favorite cardigan with a hint of lavender.

Helping Hand Tea Feeling hit from all sides? Get a leg up with this caffeine free blend. Energetically promote healing, calm and boost your luck too! Soft mint and vanilla lifts you over the hurdles life brings your way.

Triple Fast Luck Tea This light mint and vanilla blend paves the way and cinnamon brings your good luck on in a hurry. Lightly caffeinated and great for a gentle morning ritual, brings good luck all day.

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Of Green and Glass: Where are all the Pagans?

Of Green and Glass:
Where Down to Earth Solutions and a Glass Edge Meet
By Goewin GreenWitch
Dear Goewin,

            This may seem like a silly question, but where is the “pagan community”?
Is there a secret handshake or a hidden sign I’m missing?  No matter where I go, or how hard I look I’m not seeing it / them.  I’m not vain enough to think I’m the only Pagan in my area, where are they hiding, and why doesn’t my area have an easier way of finding them?  I’m new to the Craft, and eager to learn, but how do I learn if I can’t even find others like me? Thanks!
-Lonely Pagan
Dear Lonely,
            No, there isn’t a secret handshake or sign.  It does however take a lot of legwork.  By now I’m sure you’ve googled, “My town” and “pagan groups” or the like.   Have you tried looking at email lists and groups on The Witches Voice or Yahoo Groups?  There are always places like Meetup that offer you a chance to meet other people interested in the same topics as you, whether it be Paganism, scrapbooking or gardening. 
            Here’s a question for you.  If meeting others in person is that important to you, why not start your own meeting or group.  I’m not saying you become that person in every community who reads one book and decides to start their own tradition.  Just put a notice up in area coffee shops, pagan stores and the like that you are creating a safe place for people to discuss similar belief structures, and then you can all learn from each other.  No matter how many years in the Craft, everyone has something that they are better at than everyone else.  There are free and low cost promotional materials available via websites like VistaPrint. 
            All in all, it really takes people that care to get something really good going.  Once you have a core group established, you can take that meeting to free places like The Witches Voice, Facebook, and Yahoo. 

Of Green and Glass: After the 101 phase



Of Green and Glass:
Where Down to Earth Solutions and a Glass Edge Meet
By Goewin GreenWitch
Dear Goewin,
            I feel like I’m drowning.  I go to the bookstore and all I see are Wicca 101 books!  I’ve read most of them and own about half.  I get it already.  Earth is green, Air in the East, think before you cast a spell.  Where are the books for the “next step”?  I think I’m interested in Green Magic, but how do I know what’s good and what’s crap?  Seeing as you use GreenWitch as your last name, I figured I could ask you.    How do I know if this is really for me if I can’t find the right books?
-Next Not New
Dear Next,
            It’s okay, it’s not just you.  I’m pretty sure many people have a bone to pick with the publishing industry.  Authors get paid squat, and publishing companies can only produce what has already sold.  This is especially true when you are talking about a “specialty” topic like a non-mainstream religion.  They need to publish books on advanced topics, but they have to concentrate on what sells to make money.  Wicca, Witchcraft and Paganism are a small enough minority, and when you factor the number of newbies versus the number of experienced practitioners of any given form or Tradition, the seekers are going to outnumber us at any given point.  Is it fair?  No, but I never promised things would be fair, just correct.
 So, how do you know if a book is right for you?  Just because a book calls itself “everything you could ever want to know”, doesn’t mean it is.  Progressing past “101” to individual paths, practices and traditions is just natural.  Some great Authors of Green Magic themed books are Ann Murphy–Hiscock,  Judika Illes (Judika doesn’t get billed as “green magic” but she has a fantastic connection with plants and their uses, Ellen Dugan (who also happens to be a Master Gardener, by the way),  Scott Cunningham, Lexa Rosean, and Poppy Palin also have several books on Herb uses, in spell work.
Keep in mind, that no matter how much you read, nothing will take the place of real world experience.  Jump online and see if there are any shops around you, check out some Open circles!  If you’re out in the middle of nowhere, there are plenty of correspondence courses for things you can learn from home.  Susun Weed offers correspondence courses as do many other famous, ‘green’ authors.  I would however caution you against joining ‘online schools’ because there is no real way of checking credentials, much of that information is available in books.  You need to be able to see what you’re paying for.

            I know it can be hard to find the next step in your faith and your practice, but please don’t let this frustration take you away from your true purpose.  Besides, let’s face it.  If you can be pulled away from a religion by one bump in the road, it must not really be for you.

Of Green and Glass: Dealing with Loss



Of Green and Glass:
Where Down to Earth Solutions and a Glass Edge Meet
By Goewin GreenWitch
Dear Goewin,
            It’s Samhain, and I’m conflicted.  I have always adored this holiday, and have since I was a child.  It was always more than the candy, and the chance to be someone else for the night.  I truly believed, even as a child that the Spirits I saw during my daily life were more easily understood at “Hallowe’en”. 
            My conflict comes from the series of events from the last year.  You see, my brother died this past spring, and it’s not clear as to whether his death was accidental or a suicide.  The police say there were drugs in his system and he stumbled onto the train tracks in his back yard.  Since no one knows for sure if it was an accident or not, it’s causing a lot of problems in our family. 
            My other brother makes things worse, by announcing that because he is recently “saved” he believes that our brother is burning in hell for having committed suicide.  Apparently he found Jesus last month in jail and that makes him an expert. 
            I’d love to celebrate Samhain and Honor him as I would any of my beloved dead, but I don’t feel his is “really” dead.  I’ve seen him, his spirit, a few months after his death, not in passing but for extended periods.  He asked me to tell our father that he was okay.  My dad has just now started to seem like his old self and I don’t want to hurt him further by mentioning it.
Do I know if he committed suicide?  No. I was too mad at my brother for dying to speak to him when he appeared to me. So all I know is that he says he’s okay.  Obviously (to me) if he can pop in to say he’s okay, then he’s not burning in hell.  Some might say that this was just my imagination brought on by grief, but I really believe it was him. 
            I feel bad that I wouldn’t talk to him when he showed up so unexpectedly, and he hasn’t come back.  How do I go about my Samhain plans feeling like I’ve abandoned my brother when he needed me?  I can’t tell my father he’s okay.  My mother and other family members have seen ghosts and communicated with them, so I know he would believe me, but I don’t want to remind him of his pain, either.  Do I mourn a suicide victim, or just the victim of an accident?
-Sad at Samhain
           

Dear Sad,
            That’s an awful lot to process for one person.  Any one part of that is enough to upset someone, and for you to be dealing with it at once can be hard.  I know you got dealt a crap hand in all of this, but you’re going to have to figure out a way to deal.  Life isn’t always fair, but I can tell you are a tough cookie, and you’ll do fine.  Let’s take this piece by piece. 
            Your brother’s death is a hard enough problem to deal with by itself.  It’s hard to have closure when you know the how of his death, but not the why.  I know it’s hard to talk about; suicide is almost as much a taboo in the Pagan community as it is in the mundane. 
Not many people know that there is a Goddess just for suicide victims.  Ixtab is a Mayan Goddess, who is believed to carry the souls of suicide victims in her heart to Paradise.  I’m sure if suicide were involved, she carried your brother in her heart to a place where he could rest and deal with what happened before moving on. 
I know you want to honor your brother’s memory by letting your father know he is okay, but I think the time for this is down the way, after he has had time to overcome his grief at his loss.  
With the common belief in reincarnation and the Summerland as a part of Wiccan and some Pagan beliefs it’s common to hear that victims of suicide weren’t capable of dealing with the lessons they chose for this lifetime and that they’ll need to repeat them in the next.  Whether or not he was an accident victim or not, I firmly believe that his coming to you to let you know he was okay was the important part. 
            Your brother’s assertions about heaven and hell come from his desire to exert some control over his loss and his own feelings.  Even though it is hurtful to you to hear him say these things, it’s merely his way of dealing.  It doesn’t make it right, but I hope that helps you understand where he’s coming from. 
            Samhain is the perfect time to let him know that you love him and miss him.  You can set up a special ancestral altar, and give photos of him prominence. Talk to him as if he were standing in front of you.  I’m sure wherever he is, he will hear you.  Don’t muddy your celebration with feelings of guilt.  You responded as many people would.  Samhain is the time to celebrate the times you enjoyed with your loved ones, not to concentrate on their death.  On this day he is not an accident victim, or a suicide victim, he’s your brother.


Tuesday, May 7, 2013

The Broom Closet In and Out and Back In Again?

IPCOD Pt 3:

In and Out and Back In Again—a Career in Law Enforcement

For those of you who have been with me since the first of the series you’ll remember this:

Two years ago, I made the decision to go back to school. My goal: to kick ass and take names in school such that the FBI will welcome me with open arms when I graduate with Honors. I’m doing very well on that end, if I do say so myself. But let’s face it, you didn’t stop by to listen to me toot my own horn, did you?

I discussed it with a friend when I made the choice. She’s been working with Law Enforcement Officers of all stripes (Pun intended) for all of her adult life. She warned me that LEOs were a conservative lot. I assured her that I knew because I come from a LEO extended family. The words ‘Conservative’ and ‘Liberal’ both give me hives, but that’s a topic for another day. We’re talking about being out of the broom closet.

As I got closer and closer to the first week of school I got more and more nervous. My inner monologue was replaying the above conversation and worrying about how my faith might affect my career advancement. It’s pretty sad that I felt I had to agonize over it this much, but I try to be honest with myself about such things.

So when school rolled around I decided it was a non-issue. I don’t introduce myself to people as “I’m Amy and I’m Pagan.” So why should it be an issue. I wear my pentacle every day, just like I always have. It’s not really that noticeable, I’m told. The chain also carries a single cabochon in a plain setting. This blue stone looks somewhat unremarkable to the uninitiated (pun completely intended!). This blend of Dolomite, Rhyolite and Slate is found in one place in the world, and my necklace is the same stone that Stonehenge is built from. As they hang from the same chain, the blue stone usually covers the pentacle to some degree.



Two good friends from school wound up earning my trust to the point where I answered questions about my faith with them, but I don’t advertise. I stopped putting my magnetic bumper stickers with witchy slogans on them. (Honestly, part of that was school, and part of that was a crazy person trying to run me off the road while screaming obscenities.)

Now at my job I still wear my necklace daily, but as it’s under a security uniform, no one knows it is there, at least until last week. One of the relief guys noticed the chain for the first time since I started working here almost a year ago. When he asked what was on it, I merely pulled the Stonehenge piece out of my shirt and left the pentacle hanging inside my shirt, because honestly, he hasn’t earned it. My coworkers know I’m a minister, because my last partner was president of the Jesus wagon. So we had great discussions about religion and when asked I state I’m ‘non-denominational’.

For a time I worried that this meant I was denying who I was. I had flashbacks to Sunday school in the second grade when they were telling us about Peter denying God three times in the Book of John. I wondered if I was doing a disservice to my community by not shouting my faith to the rooftops. Then I had a deep breath and got over myself. /grin

I still have a runic license plate frame that reads, “If you can read this, you’re my kind of Witch” but it’s almost an in-joke. I can display my faith to those who would understand it, and those that don’t, have no bearing on the subject anyway.

So instead of panicking that I’ve somehow put myself back in the closet, I’ve stopped worrying about it. My family and friends all know. Anyone I’m friends with on (my personal) Facebook knows. It’s okay to consider yourself when discussing your faith with others. I’m not ashamed. I still do my outreach work and occasionally have my photo out there. For pity’s sake, I appeared on TLC and the AP News Wire in ritual. It’s just that I don’t feel I need a flag to wave anymore. I’m more secure than that. And honestly, me being secure in who I am will land me my dream job, or the job I’m meant to have, more than any flag waving in my faith. I’m happy with that.

Blessed Be.

Monday, April 29, 2013

Kyrja, public Pagan, once shot at, now regaining security.

Hate Lives in a Small Town?

     With appologies to Voltaire, hate can be found just about anywhere.  Even in Florida, as Pagan children's author, Kyrja learned recently.  For those of you unfamiliar with the story, either from Facebook or the subsequent post on The Wild Hunt, Kyrja started getting harassing messages on her YouTube Channel, prank phonecalls and late night visitors who would scream obsenties at her home indicating that they knew she was a Witch. 

      The scariest part was during the evening of late March Kyrja's home was shot at.  The first bullets piercing the window where she sits to upload Rupert's Tales to the world.  Kyrja did the right thing, and called the police as well as the Lady Liberty League

     The police responded quickly as did the LLL.  Lady Liberty League has now made the approprate recommendations, not the least of which include security system and cameras to act as a visual deterrant as well as to record evidence in case of a return offender or copy cat.  In order to do this, Kyrja has launched an indiegogo crowdfunding campaign to raise the money needed ($1,100) to make the suggested upgrades. 

     This is where we come in, dears.  If you can contribute, even $1, great.  Let's get the word out to help our fellow human feel safe in her own home again.  It doesn't matter if you're a Witch or not, Pagan or not.  We're all beautiful beings and deserve to feel safe in our homes.  Let's help Kyrja's family know the peace we all deserve in our homes, and any wishes toward Justice for her family would be appreciated. 

Thanks so much my dear friends.
Amy

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Thanks to the lovely Kallan Kennedy, goddess behind "The Secret Life of the American Working Witch" I'm updating. 

I hadn't heard, but Kyrja's home was also bombed almost three weeks after the inital shooting of her windows!  Two seperate pipe bombs were thrown at the home on April 22nd while Kyrja's step daughter was on the lawn!  Heather had to be treated for chemical inhalation and given medication.  Please help this family realize their dreams of getting a peaceful night's sleep.  The family is offering a reward leading to the capture of those responsible!

Updated story here

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Chocolate: Food and Drink of the Gods

Chocolate!

     With my semester long project researching the ritual beverages of the Amazon river basin, and my local impending snow, I thought I'd share a recipe for my favorite Aztec drink, xocolatl.  This spicy warm beverage is the predecessor to our hot chocolate.  Today's Recipe is the work of beloved (at least by me!) Herbal author and mystery writer, Susan Wittig Albert. 
    
     For those not in the know, Susan writes mysteries centering on a small Texas town and the herb shop owner who left her high powered law firm in Texas to open her own shop. 

McQuaid's Hot 'n' Spicy Chocolate
This spicy chocolate beverage is just the thing to drive winter from your cold bones!
1/2 cup Cocoa
1 tsp. Chili Powder
1 tsp Cinnamon
3/4 tsp Ground clove
1/4 tsp Salt
2 cups Water
6 cups Milk
1 tsp vanilla extract (Learn to make your own Here!)
Whipped cream
Nutmeg
8 Cinnamon Sticks
Blend dry ingredients in large saucepan.  Add water stirring and simmer for 4 minutes.  Stir in milk and reheat.  Whisk in vanilla and pour into warm mugs.  Top with whipped cream and sprinkle with nutmeg.  Add cimmamon stir stick.  Makes 8 1 cup servings.
Learn more about Susan and her friends at her webpage!

Friday, February 22, 2013

Fox News mocked beliefs, Wiccans say

April Ford understands that paganism is a minority faith generally misunderstood in the mainstream, but it still stung when Fox News commentators mocked believers with stereotypes and jokes.




“When you say derogatory things about a religious group, you have taken our sacred traditions and spat on us,” she said. “It’s very hurtful.”



Ford practices Wicca, a form of paganism, in the Columbus area. She is among about 40,000 people who have signed petitions on causes.com and change.org asking for an apology for comments made Sunday during a Fox & Friends Weekend report about the University of Missouri adding pagan and Wiccan holidays to its “Guide to Religions.”



Paganism, also called neo-paganism, is a group of ancient religions that do not acknowledge the God of Judaism, Christianity or Islam. They are generally polytheistic and revere the earth and nature. Wiccans tend to worship goddesses and practice natural magic. Adherents.com estimates about 1 million neo-pagans worldwide.



Read the rest here: http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/local/2013/02/22/fox-news-mocked-beliefs-wiccans-say.html

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Circle Of Moms and Paganism

With the ebbing and flow of controversy over Pagans "being allowed" to enter the Faith Blog contest, and fervor over the word Pagan itself, I thought I'd take some time to discuss these in turn, along with a few posts on Pagan Values. (Including hopefully a guest post with the Pagan Mom Blog for her Month of Deity.)

To those who would exclude Paganism from the ranks of the Faith Blog contest, I'm disappointed. Death Threats? Hate Speech? You've got to be kidding me. This blog contest is supposed to (I thought) to be about helping each other out, celebrating our SIMILARITIES and overall helping Bloggers find new followers. Many of the faiths presented here have a "Golden Rule". I'm pretty sure none of us want to be threatened for being different. I've gotten face to face death threats before for being Pagan. It's not fun, and it didn't change my belief structure.

This "whole faith thing" is supposed to help us shoulder the burden of life, not create new ones. It isn't about, and shouldn't be about "us versus them".

Let's be frank, I love my friends. That's why they are my friends. I'm not friends with someone just because we have the same faith. I'm friends with someone because we have things in common, they understand my weird sense of humor, sometimes we have similar view points, and even when we don't, they still love me. I'm not going to like every person that claims we have the same faith. I certainly don't expect them to love everything I have to say.

This also means I don't give a crap what label they use for a faith or IF they even have one. I have Jewish friends, Atheist friends, and friends from all faiths. I don't care if you worship your kitchen sink, if you're a cool person about it, I'll bring you cute soaps for it.

The vehemence I've seen come out of this contest is reprehensible. Is that what you want to teach your children? That your God only loves the people from your congregation, or even just your home? Even if you don't agree with someone's path in life, that doesn't give us the right to decide they don't deserve a life.

Let's try and see the things we ALL as people of faith have in common, rather than the things that make us different.

For the moment, let's take a step back and try to see each other as people. Not a Christian, Pagan, Jew or Muslim. Let us try to see each other as People. That's the first step.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Pagan Politics: What you need to know

Pagan Politics -- What You Need to Know

September 01, 2009 | Comment

By Lloyd

People often say that, in a democracy, decisions are made by a majority of the people. Of course, that is not true. Decisions are made by a majority of those who make themselves heard and who vote -- a very different thing. ~ Walter H. Judd, MD and Congressman

It is every American's right to make their opinion known to their elected officials. Unfortunately, it is the manner in which this contact is made that most often determines whether or not your opinion or issue position will actually make a difference in the vote or position of your representative.

I have served as a staff person for a State Representative, a State Senator, and a U.S. Senator. I can tell you from experience that the way in which you present yourself to your representative's staff goes a long way in whether you get the "standard reply letter" or a chance to actually meet with your representative. In this primer, I will give you a few do's and don'ts to help you with your political advocacy.

Right from the start, you have to understand that your representative, whether they are a Democrat, Republican, or Independent, is a person. As a person, they have strong moral, religious, and political views and biases that, if they are a good representative, they try to set aside when looking at the "hard" issues and in dealing with constituents that they do not necessarily see "eye-to-eye" with. They, actually their staff, hear from literally hundreds of constituents, lobbyists, and activists on a weekly basis.

Professional lobbyists and activists have not only cultivated a relationship with the representatives, or with their political parties and caucuses, but approach their contacts with these officials in a very professional manner. Most, if not all, professional lobbyists were either former legislators or legislative staff. This is the professional world that they have been a part of for most of their career and they know all of the "ins and outs" of advocating for their clients and their clients' positions. Unfortunately, the average constituent does not and makes all manner of errors in the way that they approach their representative.

Some rough percentages:

• 99.99% of elected officials (and their staff) will either be some denomination of Christian or Jewish
• 95% will have an unfavorable view toward Pagan religions (mostly due to ignorance)
• 50% believe that Pagans are "weird" or "kooks"
• 70% or so will have an unfavorable view of gays and lesbians
• 90% do want to call it a Christmas tree (no matter how they voted)
• 25% of them will be extremely fundamental in their religious views
• 99% will always vote with their party on an issue, that is why they are in that party (which has always made me wonder about Log Cabin Republicans)
• And 100% of them want to be reelected

So, what do these figures tell us? That as a Pagan constituent you will be facing an uphill battle in relating your position to your elected official. However, as a constituent you will have a much easier time in getting your views and opinions heard.

Let's start with some basics on what to do and what not to do:

Do use your legal name, not your Craft name, and your address and phone number. Legislative offices track and respond to their constituents and keep a database of all contacts. So, if they ask for your name and address, don't worry, they won't be using it against you, it is common practice.

When you try to contact your legislator by phone or in person at their office, accept the fact that 95% of the time, you're going to end up speaking to their staff. Don't get upset if the staff person does not connect you immediately to your representative. Staff people are the gatekeepers and one of their primary functions is to speak with constituents, take their issues, and then work on the issue for their boss. Staff people deal with all types of constituents and constituent contacts on top of their other duties and getting rude with them will never help your cause.

Be polite and respectful, I cannot stress this enough. If you want someone to listen to your concerns and either relay them to your representative or actually act on them, you need to treat them as you would wish to be treated yourself. Do not be demanding -- yes, they work for you, but being respectful of their time will go a long way in increasing your chances of actually having your issue acted on.

Unless it is absolutely necessary, try to keep your religious persuasion out of the discussion. Even in cases where religion is the main point (i.e., State Xmas/Holiday Tree, prison chaplain, etc.) the main issue is not your religion, it is the violation of the First Amendment (usually either the Establishment Clause or the Free Exercise Clause) or whatever the issue may be. Starting off by telling your legislator or their staff that you are Wiccan, Pagan, etc. will do nothing to help your cause.

Know your issue, do copious background research, and then be succinct, calm, and even in making your point. If you are sitting on the other end of the phone from a staffer, raking them over the coals, for 20 minutes you may feel better, but I can tell you that what you are doing is hurting you, not helping you. As part of a staffer's job is to listen to you, they will, but the second that you start to be disrespectful, they will tune you out. Oh, you'll get a letter, but don't expect the representative or the staff to put in a great amount or time or effort on your issue. Again, treat them as you want to be treated.

If you get to meet with your representative, or their staff, in person -- dress professionally. Do not wear ceremonial robes; cloaks; all black clothing (remember green is the new black!); extreme make-up (or any make-up if you are a male); or wear pentacles the size of hubcaps (this doesn't just go for Pagans, Christians that come in wearing huge crosses get just as little respect).

Many representatives already think that our religious beliefs are part of a cult (mainstream entertainment and media really hasn't helped) and dressing as if you just stepped off of a vampire movie set will just get you laughed at (after you leave) and dumped in the "crazy" file. This also goes for meetings outside the office, such as at town hall meetings and county fairs. If you plan on meeting with your representative, dress appropriately.

Do not attempt to contact legislators other than your own. It is both a waste of your time and their staff's time. By law, only your elected legislator has a "duty" to represent you (and to act on your contact). When we get contacts from people outside the district, we simply forward them to their elected legislator. Since you have probably already contacted your legislator, this just gets you lumped into the "Frequent Flyer" file (for people that seem to have nothing better to do than contact their legislator on any and all issues).

Do not continually contact your legislator or their staff after making the initial contact unless you have something new to share. They already know your position on the issue and if you keep nagging them like a kid wanting a toy, you will just end up annoying them (and getting put into said Frequent Flyer file).

This is a big one -- If your legislator does try to do a bill to help the cause, don't call and attack the bill if you feel that it does not go far enough or if the bill is stuck in a committee. Really good case in point, Mothers Against Drunk Driving came before the Senate Transportation Committee to speak in favor of a bill that would increase penalties on drunk drivers. Instead of giving it their "full" support, the MADD representative spent nearly her entire testimony on how it does not go far enough. Guess what? The bill did not pass out of committee. So, instead of getting something, the state lost and got nothing.

Don't threaten your legislator, or their staff, by saying that you will work for their opponent in the next election, won't vote for them, or will make sure that the entire district knows about this. None of these will motivate your legislator to help you.

Every legislator knows that there will be people working for their opponent, that won't vote for them, and that trying to trash them in the newspaper is often an opportunity for them to make their point to the voting public without having to spend a dime. Threats don't work. They just demean you and your cause -- you might as well threaten to hold your breath, it would be as effective.

This one may be confusing -- Open up your wallet and make a campaign donation -- but don't say, if you vote for this bill, I'll give your campaign money. The subtle difference is that it is perfectly legal to support a politician's campaign, but predicating that support on having them vote a certain way is bribery.

Legislators are more likely to listen to you if you show an interest in keeping them in office. Politicians have to run for office every two, four, or six years to keep their job and every election is more expensive than the previous one. By helping them to buy a few more yard signs or literature pieces will help you get their ear when you need it.

Grassroots movements are great as it is refreshing to see citizens actually getting involved in their own governance. However grassroots moves are only as good as their planning and execution. Sometimes they are effective, and sometimes they do more harm to their cause than good. The sad fact of life is that the everyday citizen's voice is being drowned out by the monied special interests. In order to make your voice heard, through the use of grassroots, get professional help.

Find people who have experience with planning and execution of grassroots movements and enlist their aid in yours. Do your homework on your legislators, find the ones that are, or may be, sympathetic to your issue and try and enlist their support. If the issue is too complex or, more importantly, too important:

Hire a contract lobbyist. A professional that is a known commodity around political circles and has earned the respect of the staff and legislators you are trying to influence. A contract lobbyist will know the best way to present and get your issue to floor of the legislature with a chance for its passage.

Okay, what kinds of issues should you contact your legislator about?

First, determine what level of government has the purview over your issue, or if it is even a governmental issue. If you are having a personal problem getting your Social Security check, contacting your state legislator is going to be futile, as this is a Federal issue. Ditto, don't contact your Congressman with complaints about your property taxes, which is either a city, county, or state issue.

Don't contact your legislature with a request for legal advice. That is what attorneys are for and if you cannot afford an attorney, contact your state Bar Association, as they will generally have a list of pro bono attorneys in your area.

Legislators cannot, by law, give you legal advice. Legislators can tell you about a law, try to amend the law, or try to have the law revoked. Even though the state has oversight responsibilities over utilities, these are private companies and any problems that you may be having with them can only be solved by dealing directly, or through an attorney, with them.

This article was first published at www.witchvox.com and is reprinted with permission.

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